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Singles – A new mental health "diagnosis" of guilt single women
One of the greatest risks to health increasingly single women between 30 and 40 years of guilt. Research shows that women tend to blame themselves, while men tend to take responsibility for others. So, if you drag a relationship into consideration what we have is the man and the woman's fault woman!
A family therapist for 38 years, university professor and author of several books about single women, I see the damaging fallBlame women themselves for not being married. In my study, when women were asked if they said the only choice, nearly half, yes, and the other half say no. However, when asked to explain their answer, which all said basically the same thing: they were about the election, she did not like his choice in men, met one.
The problem is not just that many men are unwilling to commit to marriage. IsMany men are not willing to do what it means to have a healthy relationship is to engage.
What is it? There are two people are willing to talk about problems, for the treatment of all types of problems – before they become big problems. Who can love, but learning to live productively with relationship problems is the most difficult aspect of the relationship. Women are socialized to be the guardian of the report, to be aware and resolve potential problems before they become serious. It can not be good, but make the effort.
Unfortunately, men are socialized with a different mandate: "If it is not broke do not fix it." Consequently, some men are qualified and willing to learn, solve problems, to strengthen a relationship.
So women, more single men ready for a healthy relationship. And they are less willing to work with a man who is not. Without understanding that,Women> page, if not a man who wants the respect that is their fault, it must be something wrong with them.
The worst thing is that even if women understand that people do not take their share of relationships that keep many of them back to himself liable to do. When Sarah, a woman in my study, said: "I prefer to believe that the problem is me, then I can do something." This self-criticism is what the documentary next year, try your luckTo move Ever After (seekinghappilyeverafter.com). Producer Kerry David and Michelle coverage of Boston to go beneath the surface of bubbles of Sex and the City, talking with hundreds of single women. Is to develop a complete picture of the woman 30 something single women who are called "happy and satisfied "or others.
One advantage of hope that this documentation will reduce the overwhelming diagnosis of mental healthAs single women, the diagnosis of … Self-criticism.
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