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Single and Lonely
The hardest part about being single for me was during those times when I felt so alone. Sure, I had my girlfriends that I could call and who were always there for me. We would go out to dinner or to the movies but I wanted the company of someone of the opposite sex. I wanted a cute guy to take me out for a night on the town and I didn't want to always have a girl's night out!
When you are single and lonely it can make you do some crazy things! I used to fumble through my little black book full of ex's (which by the way were my ex for good reasons) just trying to find someone I could talk to. I would go out with guys that I knew I couldn't have a future with just so I could get dressed up and receive compliments from a guy. To keep from being alone I would compromise myself in ways that I knew would cause a lot of heartache and pain just to have someone calling me.
It took me years to realize that being alone caused me to do a lot of things out of character and forced me to endure unnecessary drama. Being lonely caused me to settle for non-sense and guys that would normally not be worth my time. I was willing to sacrifice my sanity for a nice dinner and bowling! I came to realize that the reason why it was so hard for me t be alone was because I really didn't know myself.
For so many years I allowed men to validate me and I thought going out on dates or always having a boyfriend was the only way to be truly happy. I didn't understand at the time that I had to be happy with myself before someone else could make me happy. Once I received this revelation, I began to write down all the things I enjoyed doing and always wanted to do that I thought I needed a guy to do it with. I began doing those things by myself. I love art and I started visiting different art museums by myself. If I wanted to go out to a new restaurant, I took myself out on a date. I started dating myself, which helped me to learn to enjoy my own company.
Now, was this hard to do? Absolutely! The first time I went somewhere alone it was really weird and uncomfortable, but after a while I got used to it. I started meeting new people while I was out. You see once you become comfortable with who you are and get to the place where you love being you and are content with being single; this makes you more attractive to the opposite sex. It also keeps you from settling for the wrong guys and enables you to patiently wait for the right guy to come into your life.
Being single and content helps you to be balanced in your relationships so that you do not suffocate the person you are dating by wanting to be with them all the time and appearing as if you don't have a life. Knowing who you are and what you like enables you to keep your identity, especially in a marriage. I've been married almost four years and my husband loves and appreciates the fact that I learned while I was single to be content with myself and to have hobbies that I do on my own. This makes for a very satisfying marriage.
So, if you're single and lonely, take the time today to get to know you. Take yourself out on a date; discover what you really enjoy doing and start doing those things. Who knows you may find the man of your dreams while living your new life!
Until next time,
Clarissa Phillips
About the Author
Clarissa N. Phillips, is the Co-Founder of Healed Without Scars Ministries in Dallas, TX. Clarissa is a speaker, teacher and relationship consultant who is passionate about helping individuals develop happy, healthy relationships. Please visit http://www.hwsministries.org for more information.
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